I've been dating this girl for about 2 months now. She got out of a relationship not too long before I started dating her, and she says she doesn't have any feelings for her ex anymore. She just doesn't want to hurt him anymore since he "didn't do anything wrong."

Anyways, I've asked her a couple times about being exclusive but she's not sure if she's ready yet. It's strange really because we act like a couple. We've held hands, kissed, shared the same bed, etc., but how do I know when she's ready to make it official? She says she wants one thing but also wants another, but she didn't tell me what. She has strong feelings for me and I'm sure she isn't seeing anyone else.

Tomorrow's Valentine's Day and we're planning on going to see a movie. I have a card, a stuffed tiger (inside thing), and possibly a cupcake that I'm going to give her tomorrow. I was thinking about asking her to "Be mine" in the card but wasn't sure if I should intend it to be as a Valentine or as my girlfriend.

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